I've been lurking around here for quite some time now since I like keeping up with all the new stuff at home. I only recently joined a few days ago and I haven't noticed some of the issues you're all mentioning here. It is a relatively slow site, 15-20 seconds to load each page is a bit longer then most other sites, but manageable.
As of yet I've not been logged out unexpectedly, in fact since I've joined my account has stayed logged on the entire time.
Using Firefox both at home and work and occasionally Safari (I know, spare me).
As far as the overall layout and topic list, I agree that could use some work. I'm not going to dive into this too deep, but here is my loose suggestion for the homepage:
City of St. Louis
-Central Corridor
-South City
-North City
St. Louis County
-North County
-South County
-West County
-Mid/Central County
Outer Metro
-Metro East
-St. Charles County
-Jefferson County
Basically these would cover all the development announcements and updates.
General St. Louis Discussion:
-Things like the crime thread, transportation, politics and policy, higher education, reputation, photography, where am I in STL, etc. Things that tend to transcend the entire region and not just one jurisdiction.
General Urbanism
-Basically a combination of the General Topics and Urbanism elsewhere sections.
Feel free to tweak it!
I know I'm new here, so forgive me for diving right in, but my little case of OCD means I LOVE organizing things
