Trap,
I appreciate your response and obviously you know a lot more than me having first-hand experience. But it's hard for me to not roll my eyes when someone like Bill Cosby (yes, obviously now he is not an ideal example, but at the time he was very respected) gets crucified for saying some of the things I just said. As for sagging, yes, it is a low-hanging fruit. But the reason that is significant is that one shouldn't expect me to give them a job and to represent my business (going with the hypothetical that I owned a business) if that's how they present themselves. The simple logic of this is: show me you respect yourself and want to give a good impression and then I'll respect you. Whether fair or not, this plays into perception, which then plays into politics.
I appreciate your response and obviously you know a lot more than me having first-hand experience. But it's hard for me to not roll my eyes when someone like Bill Cosby (yes, obviously now he is not an ideal example, but at the time he was very respected) gets crucified for saying some of the things I just said. As for sagging, yes, it is a low-hanging fruit. But the reason that is significant is that one shouldn't expect me to give them a job and to represent my business (going with the hypothetical that I owned a business) if that's how they present themselves. The simple logic of this is: show me you respect yourself and want to give a good impression and then I'll respect you. Whether fair or not, this plays into perception, which then plays into politics.









