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PostOct 31, 2016#11

I know that Our Lady of Sorrows was planning on closing either this year or the next, but last I heard there was still resistance to any sort of cooperative because it seems unlikely to succeed. A decade ago, Sorrows combined with St. Mary Magdalene on Kingshighway, but the end result of that was almost none of the students came to Sorrows. I hope enough people send their kids to St. Joan of Arc to save it from a similar fate, but I remain skeptical. Of course, losing St. James in Dogtown is a big blow for the City and for the continuation of the Irish community in South St. Louis.

In terms of the other schools in the City, St. Gabriel the Archangel (my alma mater) and St. Margaret of Scotland seem best positioned to survive long term. St. Stephen's, St. Roch's and St. Raphael's have fewer students but also have many wealthy parishioners which have allowed them to continue operation, and St. Ambrose has the support of the Italian community of The Hill to keep it afloat. I imagine that St. Cecilia and St. Francis Cabrini are mostly supported financially by the archdiocese, so it is hard to know how long the Archdiocese will continue serving underprivileged communities in South City, but St. Cecilia being one of the only Spanish Catholic churches in the area helps them quite a bit.

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PostOct 31, 2016#12

I went to Resurrection grade school (Meramec, now closed) we had about 15-20 per class...didn't have enough for sports team so we played on St.Mary Magdalene soccer team....pretty sure we made it to CYC soccer championship in 1998 or 99...

Went to HS at St.Johns (delor, now closed) school had about 500+ when i started in 2000....my class had about 140 to start and by 2004 the class finished with 66 and the school around 225.... we did finish 3rd in state in soccer in 2003...dominated the hack out of county private schools that year.

anyway...based on that, i can expect Missouri State University to close any day now too.

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PostOct 31, 2016#13

Being a K-12 Catholic school product, it really is astonishing and quite frankly, depressing, when you think about all of the closures.

Even though some of the major reasons are obvious, just look at the list (off the top of my head) of Catholic schools that have closed in South City (or close to South City) the past few decades:

St. Anthony of Padua
St. Pius
St. John's grade school & high school
Resurrection
St. Mary Magdalen
Holy Family
Holy Innocents
Epiphany
St. Aloysius
Little Flower
St. Luke's
St. Stephen's
Immaculate Heart of Mary
Immaculate Conception (Maplewood)
Seven Holy Founders (Affton)
St. George (Affton)

*St. Michael's, Immaculate Conception, Our Lady of Providence & St. Dominic all combined to form Holy Cross
*Now St. James, Our Lady of Sorrows & St. Joan of Arc will combine.

Like I said, astonishing!

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PostOct 31, 2016#14

DogtownBnR wrote:I do not think this is official, but some long time staples of South St. Louis, St. James the Greater & Our Lady of Sorrows, from what I've heard, will be closing and moving all of their students to the St. Joan of Arc campus. SJA will be home to the new combined school, not named yet. I'm not sure what the future holds for the 2 buildings no longer being used. Criticize the Catholic Church all you want, but these schools have been the foundation of these South City neighborhoods. Many kids graduated and became successful thanks to those schools. While it is great to see that at least one school will house the combined school and stay open, it is also sad to see two long time schools close. St. James Church will stay open, as will OLS. Again, not sure the deal is signed on the dotted line, I've heard it is all, but a done deal or the schools will all close. This will be a "Holy Cross" type arrangement, the South County schools signed.
Except Holy Cross kept all of the school campuses open - which is fundamentally different than the previous approach of consolidate-and-rename. Seven Holy Founders did eventually join, closing their campus as they did. But then Dominic Savio joined and will retain their school as well.

Additionally, attendance at all Holy Cross schools (except for the closed SHF) is higher than it was before the arrangement. By all seeming measures, it was a successful endeavor. Kindergarten and preschool enrollment is at record highs, too.

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PostNov 01, 2016#15

Little Flower is still open though I know that their numbers are getting pretty low.

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PostNov 01, 2016#16

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DogtownBnR wrote:I do not think this is official, but some long time staples of South St. Louis, St. James the Greater & Our Lady of Sorrows, from what I've heard, will be closing and moving all of their students to the St. Joan of Arc campus.
Also - I might be getting them mixed up - but didn't Sorrows recently build a big new gym complex?

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PostNov 01, 2016#17

Sorrows did build a very nice gym complex, but that had to be over 10 years ago, but I could be off. Not sure what they would do with the other 2 campuses. There is a lot of pushback right now, from parish families. I am not sure how this will all come together in time for next school year.

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PostJan 31, 2022#19

Trying to find the right spot for this....  

Impact is not only Catholic schools but also parishes:

Archdiocese "All Things New"

This is a particularly eye-watering stat:
Today, St. Joseph of Cottleville in St. Charles County is the largest parish in the archdiocese, with more than 5,000 families. In 2020, six priests at two St. Charles County parishes served nearly the same number of Catholics as 31 priests served at 26 parishes in south St. Louis, according to the archdiocese. Many city parishes can struggle to fill half the pews in historic buildings.

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PostFeb 01, 2022#20

It’s insane how large some of the parishes in St. Charles County are. St. Joes in Cottleville is massive. They’re currently on their 3rd Church. The previous two are just south of their new one. Immaculate Conception in Dardenne Prairie is also huge. For Christmas and Easter they typically have over 10 Masses a day, with even a couple in their gymnasium occurring at the same time as Mass in the main Church. The problem is some of the parish boundaries in St. Charles County cover the same area as a dozen boundaries in the city. St. Joe Cottleville (red dot on the map) covers such a large area. This made sense when St. Charles was all farm land. But now there are certain areas of St. Charles County that are just as densely populated as South City. I expect lots of church closings from this initiative, and not just in areas you’d expect (North City). South City will probably suffer the most. Seems like there’s a Catholic Church within every square mile of STL, which is no longer needed in a city that has lost over half a million people.


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PostFeb 01, 2022#21

As the city grows its Asian and Hispanic populations, that should help some with Catholic population. Where I grew up in Seattle, our parish was probably 80% Hispanic and Asian. Strong Vietnamese and Filipino population helped.


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PostFeb 01, 2022#22

The way it sounded was kind of that we should expect some churches/schools to be consolidated and closed. So, hopefully some of those structures can get repurposed if/when... 

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PostFeb 01, 2022#23

I don’t have a good track record with Catholic south city schools (or even slps)

Dewey through 5th grade- still open
Bunche middle school 6th grade- closed
Resurrection 7/8th grade- closed (on Meramac)
St.Johns high school- closed (on Delor, the k-8 next door also closed)

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PostFeb 01, 2022#24

As someone raised Catholic in South City it has been depressing to watch the collapse over the past two decades. It is important to remember that first and foremost the Catholic Church is the world's oldest lasting bureaucracy, and it will restructure and reallocate until the very end.

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PostFeb 02, 2022#25

I'm a product of Catholic schooling. St. Francis in Oakville and Vianney High. Around the time I started Kindergarten, St. Francis was one of the largest schools in the archdiocese. My freshman class is the largest incoming class in Vianney's history. I saw the numbers dwindle at both my schools as I progressed, and it all comes down to the cost of tuition. It rose in a dramatic way because people in religious life are no longer staffing these institutions. Paying quality lay educators cost more.

When I was in 4th grade, Catholic teachers tried to unionize. My mom, who has been in parish finances for most of her career, was vehemently opposed to it because she felt it would be the downfall of Catholic schools. While I believe that all teachers deserve to be compensated more than what they even get right now, I think she was right.

People of my generation and younger, including myself, increasingly don't identify as religious despite their familial upbringings. Personally, my aversion to the Catholic church has to do with their attitudes on LGBTQ+ individuals. Being taught that I would have to be celibate the rest of my life just didn't jive with me and led me to a winding path toward my current agnostic beliefs. And then there's the homophobic comments from classmates that teachers turned a deaf ear to, and the archbishop sending St. Louis money to try to defeat a same-sex marriage bill... In Maine. Also, at least in the schools I attended, there was absolutely no diversity. Not just in race or ethnicity (or obviously religion), but economic background and general thought. My high school was a jock school that helped spread toxic masculinity. It was truly a disgusting place at times. One cold winter day, a teacher had the windows open. he told us all, "If you're cold, wear a sweater. If you're still cold, wear a tampon." Thousands of dollars a year to be indoctrinated with misogyny.

So while some people might be mourning the loss of these communities, I say good riddance to a homophobic institution that leaves scars on many queer kids.

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PostFeb 02, 2022#26

^yeah that is why even though we live in the city Catholic schools are pretty much out of question, do not want to subject my kids to that sort of brainwashing (even though I went to Catholic schools myself)

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PostFeb 02, 2022#27

Miss Shell, while I respect your opinion, I’ve seen much of what you described in public schools as well. I’ve gone to both Catholic & public schools. I saw those environments in both and the opposite in both. As a lifetime southsider, the Catholic history and legacy is a very important and IMO, cherished piece of STL history. Many neighborhoods in the City were centered and solidified by the churches over the decades. I understand there are old traditions that need to change and mistakes made by the church, but I also feel some go after Catholics no matter what they do. I feel just like any religion there are good things and things that could be changed.

I just get frustrated when people would celebrate say a new Scientology church or mosque, yet get angry when Catholics do anything. Not looking to get further into the weeds on this, but also wanted to add my two cents as a lifetime southside Catholic (not devout).

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PostFeb 02, 2022#28

I was about to say the same thing, dogtown. And I had a feeling this thread would attract some Catholic-bashing. Using words like “brainwashing” and “homophobic” and other buzzword talking points do no good. This is a religion we are talking about. Most religions have similar LGBT views. The Catholic Church is far from perfect when it comes to gay rights (I believe the Episcopal Church is the gold standard, coming from a gay Catholic myself), but the Catholic Church is far better than Islam or the Westboro Baptist Church when it comes to this IMO.

I also am no longer practicing, though I do occasionally attend Mass a few times a year. I spent 2 years in public school and the rest in Catholic school. If I had to do it over again, I would have spent all of my years in Catholic school. But everyone has their own opinion and experiences. I know plenty of people who have experienced far less bullying in Catholic school than they did in public school, but again… everyone has their own experiences.

I’m very intrigued to see how this “All Things New” strategic plan plays out. Adding to what Ebsy said further above, the Catholic Church is an old institution. Restructuring and reallocating is necessary as the world evolves. The Catholic Church may not be perfect (no institution is), but I can’t imagine a world without it. I especially can’t imagine a St. Louis without it.


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I actually didn't even realize this until I was able to remove some of my small town SEMissouri brainwashing... I would have assumed Catholics were all Republican voters growing up in the birth county of Rush Limbaugh. ...and Miss Shell, as a Catholic, I don't blame you for leaving... I have almost done the same myself multiple times. 

"Around half of Catholic registered voters (48%) describe themselves as Republicans or say they lean toward the Republican Party, while roughly the same share (47%) identify with or lean toward the Democratic Party, according to Pew Research Center polls in 2018 and 2019." https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2 ... n-the-u-s/

...but just like most things in the US these days, the Catholic Church has two distinct sides to it.  Someone that turned my head was Fr. James Martin (Editor of The America Magazine: The Jesuit Review of Faith & Culture). He's doing his best to be a voice for a less "insert favorite GOP adjective-buzzword" future for the US Catholic Church. He's the chief voice for LGBTQ+ in the Church and attempting to change the conversation on many fronts.

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PostFeb 02, 2022#30

Fr. Martin is amazing. He played a big role in giving me the courage to come out to my Catholic family. Anyways… we’re veering off topic a bit.


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PostFeb 02, 2022#31

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I actually didn't even realize this until I was able to remove some of my small town SEMissouri brainwashing... I would have assumed Catholics were all Republican voters growing up in the birth county of Rush Limbaugh. ...and Miss Shell, as a Catholic, I don't blame you for leaving... I have almost done the same myself multiple times. 

"Around half of Catholic registered voters (48%) describe themselves as Republicans or say they lean toward the Republican Party, while roughly the same share (47%) identify with or lean toward the Democratic Party, according to Pew Research Center polls in 2018 and 2019." https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2 ... n-the-u-s/

...but just like most things in the US these days, the Catholic Church has two distinct sides to it.  Someone that turned my head was Fr. James Martin (Editor of The America Magazine: The Jesuit Review of Faith & Culture). He's doing his best to be a voice for a less "insert favorite GOP adjective-buzzword" future for the US Catholic Church. He's the chief voice for LGBTQ+ in the Church and attempting to change the conversation on many fronts.

Going to STL city Catholic grade school and high school I assumed 90% were democrats, I know the 2 dozen friends that I still keep in touch with are, I think it depends on where the church is/was

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PostFeb 03, 2022#32

dbInSouthCity wrote:
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I actually didn't even realize this until I was able to remove some of my small town SEMissouri brainwashing... I would have assumed Catholics were all Republican voters growing up in the birth county of Rush Limbaugh. ...and Miss Shell, as a Catholic, I don't blame you for leaving... I have almost done the same myself multiple times. 

"Around half of Catholic registered voters (48%) describe themselves as Republicans or say they lean toward the Republican Party, while roughly the same share (47%) identify with or lean toward the Democratic Party, according to Pew Research Center polls in 2018 and 2019." https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2 ... n-the-u-s/

...but just like most things in the US these days, the Catholic Church has two distinct sides to it.  Someone that turned my head was Fr. James Martin (Editor of The America Magazine: The Jesuit Review of Faith & Culture). He's doing his best to be a voice for a less "insert favorite GOP adjective-buzzword" future for the US Catholic Church. He's the chief voice for LGBTQ+ in the Church and attempting to change the conversation on many fronts.

Going to STL city Catholic grade school and high school I assumed 90% were democrats, I know the 2 dozen friends that I still keep in touch with are, I think it depends on where the church is/was
St. Roch’s produced Michael Harrington


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SeattleNative wrote:
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dbInSouthCity wrote:
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I actually didn't even realize this until I was able to remove some of my small town SEMissouri brainwashing... I would have assumed Catholics were all Republican voters growing up in the birth county of Rush Limbaugh. ...and Miss Shell, as a Catholic, I don't blame you for leaving... I have almost done the same myself multiple times. 

"Around half of Catholic registered voters (48%) describe themselves as Republicans or say they lean toward the Republican Party, while roughly the same share (47%) identify with or lean toward the Democratic Party, according to Pew Research Center polls in 2018 and 2019." https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2 ... n-the-u-s/

...but just like most things in the US these days, the Catholic Church has two distinct sides to it.  Someone that turned my head was Fr. James Martin (Editor of The America Magazine: The Jesuit Review of Faith & Culture). He's doing his best to be a voice for a less "insert favorite GOP adjective-buzzword" future for the US Catholic Church. He's the chief voice for LGBTQ+ in the Church and attempting to change the conversation on many fronts.

Going to STL city Catholic grade school and high school I assumed 90% were democrats, I know the 2 dozen friends that I still keep in touch with are, I think it depends on where the church is/was
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Harrington went to SLUH though you will never catch them admitting that! 

White ethnics in St. Louis (primarily Irish, Italians, Poles, Catholic Germans), like in many northern cities, were almost entirely Democrats. Only once their children started intermarrying and moving out to the suburbs did you see large numbers start to vote for the Republicans. My uncle's father (eye-talian) was a Democratic state representative from the Dogtown area and yet his son and granddaughters live out in Mehlville now and vote straight ticket GOP. As mentioned above, Catholics tend to be quite split nowadays though Biden did exceptionally well among Catholics in South City, getting thousands of more votes than Clinton did in the Catholic wards in southwest City.

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PostFeb 03, 2022#34

I lived across the alley from St.Mary’s HS, it’s odd seeing it transform into basically just an athletes factory.  They just won state title in football by like 35-40 points by game.

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PostFeb 03, 2022#35

dbInSouthCity wrote:
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pattimagee wrote:
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I actually didn't even realize this until I was able to remove some of my small town SEMissouri brainwashing... I would have assumed Catholics were all Republican voters growing up in the birth county of Rush Limbaugh. ...and Miss Shell, as a Catholic, I don't blame you for leaving... I have almost done the same myself multiple times. 

"Around half of Catholic registered voters (48%) describe themselves as Republicans or say they lean toward the Republican Party, while roughly the same share (47%) identify with or lean toward the Democratic Party, according to Pew Research Center polls in 2018 and 2019." https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2 ... n-the-u-s/

...but just like most things in the US these days, the Catholic Church has two distinct sides to it.  Someone that turned my head was Fr. James Martin (Editor of The America Magazine: The Jesuit Review of Faith & Culture). He's doing his best to be a voice for a less "insert favorite GOP adjective-buzzword" future for the US Catholic Church. He's the chief voice for LGBTQ+ in the Church and attempting to change the conversation on many fronts.

Going to STL city Catholic grade school and high school I assumed 90% were democrats, I know the 2 dozen friends that I still keep in touch with are, I think it depends on where the church is/was
Yeah - that was mind-blowing to me as a 22+ year old when I moved to STL. 

and billikens_19 thanks for sharing that - makes me happy to hear! :)

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